Sorry, but…STI`s are real!

There is something i really desire to speak up about it…

STI`s!

Sexually transmitted infections.

The „things“ you get from lovemaking.

(you may already be triggered here, but i invite you to stay a moment with me…)

You may have heard about it and maybe suffered from it yourself :

Chlamydia, Gonnorrhoe, Trichomonas, Syphillis, HIV, Ureaplasma, HPV and so on.

(P.S is it really worth to go through that pain for a one-night-stand or a short sexual connection?!)

Seriously, it sucks if you get it.

• Yes, some you can treat easily if you KNOW you have it.

• Some of them are kind of harmless, but still, create a lot of discomfort in your body (ever had genital warts?!).

• Some of them can make you infertile, if you have them over a long time, not knowing it (hello Chlamydia).

• Some of them can be seriously cancer-causing: there are more than 100 types of HPV of which at least 14 are potentially cancer-causing (!). Cervical cancer is the fourth most common cancer among women globally.

It is real.

It exists.

And we can`t deny it.

And the best thing we can do to prevent as best as we can IS SIMPLY GO AND TEST.

BEFORE you make love and have unprotected (oral)-sex.

Here comes the thing, that really puts me into annoyance about this topic:

(hhaahhha get ready, it may come out a bit fiery!)

IF YOUR LOVER IS ASKING YOUR FOR TAKING A TEST BEFORE LOVEMAKING TO CREATE A SAFE SPACE : JUST DO IT.

Out of love, care and respect.

So both can be at ease and really enjoy the lovemaking exploration.

(and that also counts, if you plan to have safer sex with condoms anyway, because as we all know, condoms can burst very easily, right??!)

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Unluckily reactions like this are happening:

«I don`t have anything. I am 100% sure. So i don`t need to test.»

Sorry, but you never know. No symptoms doesn`t mean no STI`s.

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«Awww you are so anxious. Your need for testing comes out of your own shadow. Just surrender to life. If you get it, it is destiny anyway.»

Fuck no!

The desire for testing comes out of a place of integration and taking care of my sexual health and my body. I am not gambling with my health and just see what is happening!

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«It is all about your mindset. If you don`t believe in it, you don`t get it.»

It is a physical reality. Just simply not believing in it – is not enough to protect my sacred body.

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«Oh this is too expensive, too much of an effort and i don`t like to go through the discomfort of testing».

Eeeehhhh,please?

Sorry, but if that is too much of a hassle for you – you are not the one.

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I am supporting women in being their most healthiest version of themselves, sexually vibrant and in total joy of their femininity. And sexual health is an important part of that.

Im here to create a greater understanding of how we can make love and stay healthy.

I stand up for the COURAGE to ask your lover(s) for testing.

BECAUSE IT IS YOUR GODDESS BODY AND YOU ARE WORTH IT.